Inside Will and Jada Pinkett Smith’s Unique Family Life

From a hands-off parenting style to opening — and then closing — an elementary school, Will and Jada Pinkett Smith's family lifestyle is unique and interesting.

This is a story all about how the Smiths never got flip-turned upside down because they’re one of the most famous and successful families in America.

Will Smith, Jada Pinkett Smith and their children, Jaden Smith and Willow Smith, are rich beyond belief — and their family dynamic is quite interesting, which Jada often refers to on her “Red Table Talk” web television show.

Here’s a candid look at all we know about the Smiths, their riches, how they live and their unorthodox parenting techniques that might have you in awe while also scratching your head.

Jada Pinkett Smith Had a Rough Childhood

Jada Pinkett Smith, accompanied by husband Will Smith and daughter Willow, testifies before the Senate Foreign Relations Committee during a hearing on human trafficking on Capitol Hill in Washington on July 17, 2012. Manuel Balce Ceneta / AP Photo

Jada Pinkett Smith didn’t grow up on easy street in Baltimore. Her mother, Adrienne Banfield Jones, and her step-father, Warren Brown, were both drug addicts.

Brown told Celebbuzz that he used cocaine. Jones later revealed on “Red Table Talk” that she “was on drugs” until Jada was “17 or 18 years old.”

Jada herself went on to sell drugs in a bad neighborhood, saying that it was “just the norm” and that she was “in the streets selling drugs, doing all kinds of stuff.”

And It Prepared Her for Hollywood

Jada Pinkett Smith arrives at the Los Angeles premiere of “Magic Mike XXL” at the TCL Chinese Theatre on June 25, 2015. Paul A. Hebert / Invision / AP

On a positive note, she said the experience left her unafraid to deal with Hollywood big wigs.

She summed up her attitude like so: “I deal with killers, homie, you produce what?” she said on “Red Table Talk.”

Jada Was Ready to Let Her Son Move Out at 15

Will Smith and Jaden Smith attend AFTER EARTH Day at the Miami Science Museum on May 16, 2013 in Miami, Florida. Jeff Daly / Invision/AP

When Jaden told his mother he was ready to move out at 15, instead of laughing, Jada took the news seriously.

“I remember thinking to myself, as devastated as I was, he’s right. He’s 15. It’s time for him to leave the house,” Jada said during a “Red Table Talk” episode. The actress went on to say Jaden had always been so mature that she and Will would be lucky if they could keep him at home till he was 16. The Smiths seem to have a ‘hands-off’ style of parenting, with Jada saying, “They don’t belong to me” about her children.

But Did He?

Jaden Smith arrives at the MTV Video Music Awards at the Microsoft Theater on Aug. 30, 2015, in Los Angeles. Matt Sayles / Invision / AP

It’s not clear if he actually moved out. Jaden was reportedly asking for emancipation from his parents, but decided not to go through with it, according to People.

And why would he? Check out where he got to live just three years later.

Jaden Lives in a $4 Million Home

Will Smith, Jaden Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith seen at the Los Angeles Premiere of Warner Bros. Pictures’ “Focus” on Feb 24, 2015 in Hollywood. Eric Charbonneau / Invision for Warner Bros./AP

In 2016, Jaden moved into a Smith family mansion located in the Hidden Hills area of Los Angeles. According to the Daily Mail, the mansion, worth at least $4 million, was purchased by Will in 2003. Also according to the Daily Mail, the neighbors don’t like him because he acts like he owns the place.

Hidden Hills is a celebrity-filled area, and his friend, Kylie Jenner, lives there as well.

Willow Didn’t Like Doing ‘Whip My Hair’

Willow Smith, as a cast member in the film “Kit Kittredge: An American Girl,” poses for photographers as her parents, actors Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith, look on at the premiere of the film in Los Angeles, June 14, 2008. Chris Pizzello / AP Photo

When she was nine years old, Willow Smith had a musical career jumpstarted thanks to her famous family’s connections.

She released a single, “Whip My Hair,” in early 2010; it peaked at fifth place on the Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs billboard, stayed on the chart for 20 weeks, and went platinum in the United States.

Self Critic

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However, Willow doesn’t seem to see the hit as that big of a success. During a “Red Table Talk” show, she told her mother that she and Will should have instead encouraged her “musical growth and knowledge more than her popularity.”

Later, Willow admitted to briefly cutting herself after her music debut during a “short, weird point in my life.”

Willow Smith is Worth $6 Million

Willow Smith, left, and Jaden Smith attend the 27th Annual EMA Awards at Barker Hangar on Sept. 23, 2017, in Santa Monica, Calif. Richard Shotwell / Invision/AP

Even if Willow didn’t like her entrance into the music industry, the song netted her a reported $1.7 million from “Whip My Hair.”

Willow is also an actress and appeared in “I Am Legend” (which starred her father), lent her voice to the animated films “Madagascar” and “Madagascar 2,” and occasionally acts on television. Altogether, she has an estimated worth of $6 million.

Jaden Smith Is Worth $8 Million

Hong Kong actor Jackie Chan, left, actor Jaden Smith, center, and producer and actor Will Smith make a karate pose before the Japan premiere of the film ” The Karate Kid” in Tokyo, Aug. 5, 2010. Junji Kurokawa / AP Photo

Jaden Smith’s money-making abilities come mainly from his acting. He started out starring alongside his dad in 2006’s “The Pursuit of Happyness,” and then went on to star as the karate kid himself in “The Karate Kid” remake four years later.

He co-starred along with his father in 2013’s “After Earth,” and went on to have a role in Netflix’s “The Get Down” and lent his voice to the animated show “Neo Yokio.”

Jaden’s Side Gigs

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He also released a music album, “Syre,” which sold an equivalent of 20,500 albums as of 2017. He also did some skirt-modeling work for Louis Vuitton and has a clothing line.

All in all, Celebrity Net Worth puts Jaden’s net worth at $8 million.

Jada Pinkett Smith Never Has to Work, Either

Actress Jada Pinkett Smith poses during the premiere of “Skate Kitchen” at the Library Theatre during the 2018 Sundance Film Festival on Jan. 21, 2018, in Park City, Utah. Arthur Mola / Invision/AP

Jada scrapped her way through Hollywood, starring in bit roles until she landed starring role as Ronnie in the critically acclaimed movie, “Menace II Society.”

Then, she landed a recurring character role on the sitcom “A Different World” and went to nab an increasing number of big roles. Notable roles include playing Niobe in “The Matrix,” Christina Hawthorne in the television show “Hawthorne” (which earned her about $150,000 an episode) and a recurring role on the hit television show “Gotham.”

The actress is now worth about $50 million.

And Will Smith Is the Richest

Actor Will Smith poses upon his arrival for a press conference to promote his new movie “Men in Black III” in Seoul, South Korea, May 7, 2012. Lee Jin-man / AP Photo

It probably goes without saying that Will Smith is the richest Smith.

The actor became a beloved cultural icon with his breakout performance as the Fresh Prince in “The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air,” and the man has never stopped working.

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Aside from his successful rap career, the big bucks come from more than 40 movies. He’s starred in gigantic hits like “Independence Day,” the “Men in Black” series, “I, Robot,” “Bad Boys” and “I Am Legend.”

His movies have made an estimated $6 billion in total at the box office, which makes his estimated net worth of $350 million easily understood.

Their House and Real Estate Dealings

Jada Pinkett Smith arrives with her husband, Will Smith, and their daughter, Willow, at Nickelodeon’s 18th annual Kids’ Choice Awards, April 2, 2005, in Los Angeles. Mark J. Terrill / AP Photo

The Smith family lives in a beautiful 25,000-square-foot, adobe-style compound with hand-carved railings situated on a whopping 150 acres of land that, at one point, listed for $42 million (the home is now off the market, and it’s where “Red Table Talk” is filmed).

Naturally, that’s not the Smiths’ only real estate.

Properties in Hawaii

The Smiths sold this Hawaiian property for $12 million. Hawaii Life Real Estate Brokers

In 2017, the Smiths sold a four-structure, seven-bedroom compound on nearly seven acres in Kauai, Hawaii, for $12 million. According to Variety, the couple made $2 million off the deal.

That isn’t the only time the couple profited from real estate in Hawaii — according to the Wall Street Journal, Will and Jada sold a Hawaiian property for $20 million in 2015 after buying it for $13.5 million in 2009, therefore banking around $6.5 million from the deal.

Will and Jada Founded a School

Will Smith, center, poses with his family, from left, Jaden Smith, Willow Smith, Jada Pinkett Smith and Trey Smith at the “After Earth” premiere at the Ziegfeld Theatre on May 29, 2013 in New York. Evan Agostini / Invision/AP

The story of Will and Jada’s school, the New Village Leadership Academy, a small, private elementary school in Calabasas, Calif., is a strange one. It opened in 2009 and shut down in 2013 after some controversy stemming from Scientology-inspired reading materials, as well as rumors that Will and Jada were scientologists.

The trouble started after the Smiths’ 2008 tax returns revealed that they gave a combined $122,500 donation to the Church of Scientology. To be fair, that was just a portion of the $1.3 million donations given to a bunch of different church and charity groups, but it was enough to gain the attention of the press.

Then, They Closed It

From left, Jada Pinkett Smith, Will Smith, Willow Smith, Jaden Smith and Trey Smith attend VH1’s “Dear Mama” Mother’s Day Special taping at St. Bartholomew’s Church on May 3, 2016, in New York. Greg Allen / Invision / AP

It was then uncovered that the school used something called Study Technology, a teaching method employed by the Church of Scientology, which was created by Scientology’s founder, L. Ron Hubbard.

Will and Jada both denied being members of scientology and that the school was any kind of recruitment establishment for the religion. Regardless, the damage was done. In 2013, the school quietly closed, allegedly because parents wouldn’t associate with the school due to bad press and, according to Showbiz 411, Will and Jada were spending $2 million a year of their own money to keep the school afloat.

Jaden and Willow reportedly attended the school.

The Kids Hated School

Will Smith arrives with his son, Jaden Smith, to the premier of the new film “Spider-Man,” in the Westwood section of Los Angeles, April 29, 2002. Chris Pizzello / AP Photo

On their “Growing Up Smith” episode of “Red Table Talk,” the kids talked with their grandmother and their mother about how they really didn’t like school. The 19-year-old Jaden recalled — somehow — his distasteful experience in pre-school, saying “The short amount of time I went to pre-school, it felt like three years.

After laughter from their grandma and their mother, Jada said that Jaden “might have made it two weeks,” and noted that she waited in the parking lot while he was there because Jaden would say, “‘Mommy, why would you leave me with people who don’t love me?’”

And It Involved Some Seriously ‘Bad PB&Js’

Willow Smith, left, and Jaden Smith arrive at The Metropolitan Museum of Art Costume Institute Benefit Gala, celebrating the opening of “Manus x Machina: Fashion in an Age of Technology” on May 2, 2016, in New York. Charles Sykes / Invision / AP

Willow said that whenever she came home from school she “was always in a terrible mood” and that “my days were so full of insecurity and fear and bad PB&Js.” It’s not clear if Willow was talking about the New Village Leadership Academy, although reports say Willow had attended Sierra Canyon High School in Los Angeles.

So, like any well-meaning Hollywood parents not wanting to make their children uncomfortable in any way, shape or form, they pulled their children away from the school system.

So, Jaden and Willow Were Homeschooled

Will Smith, Jada Pinkett Smith, and their children Jaden and Willow open the Nobel Concert, in Oslo, Dec. 11, 2009, when the Nobel Peace laureate was President Barack Obama. John McConnico / AP Photo

Able to avoid the emotional scarring of the best schools that money can buy — or create — the Smith kids went into homeschooling.

What exactly kind of homeschooling that is, is anyone’s guess.

A Unique Education

Willow Smith, left, and Jaden Smith arrive at the MTV Video Music Awards on Aug. 25, 2013, at the Barclays Center in the Brooklyn borough of New York. Evan Agostini / Invision / AP

In an interview with GQ, Jaden said he and Willow “started this initiative called Mystery School. It dates back to like ancient Egypt, ancient Greece — like Plato, Pythagoras, all these students had mystery schools. And what they learned in there was sacred.”

He apparently built some kind of pyramid in his backyard, and, in a 2014 interview with The New York Times, said he was reading, “‘The Ancient Secret of the Flower of Life’ and ancient texts; things that can’t be pre-dated.” Willow, then 14, said she was reading quantum physics books and books by Osho, a sex cult leader featured in Netflix’s “Wild, Wild Country” documentary series.

Jada and Will Met on the ‘Fresh Prince’ Set

President Bill Clinton and Will Smith pose at the Inaugural Gala in 1993. AP Photo

In 1990, Jada was still new to Hollywood and was looking for work. So, she made an audition that would change her life — and not because she landed the role. She auditioned for a part on a new series called “The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air,” where she hoped to play Will Smith’s girlfriend. Unfortunately, the producers thought that the five-foot Jada was unrealistically short for their 6’2” lead, and she didn’t get the part.

Five years later, for Jada’s 25th birthday, Will sent a delivery truck stuffed with flowers to the movie set where Jada was working. One year later, they married at a wedding venue decorated with gilded magnolia leaves, velvet draping and lilies from New Zealand, according to People.

Previously Married

Actress Sheree Fletcher attends the “After Earth” premiere at the Ziegfeld Theatre on May 29, 2013 in New York. Evan Agostini / Invision / AP

It wasn’t all fairy tales, though — Jada started dating Will while Will was still married to his first wife, Sheree Fletcher, mother to Trey Smith.

Will and Sheree divorced in 1995.

Trey Smith and Will’s Past Love

Actor Will Smith and his son Trey cheer as they watch the action during the second half of the NBA All-Star game Feb. 15, 2004, in Los Angeles. Mark J. Terrill / AP Photo

Will’s first child, Trey Smith, born in 1992, is probably most recognized as the kid in Will Smith’s music video for his hit track “Just the Two of Us.”

He’s currently a DJ who works under the moniker DJ Ace. And he still has a relationship with his father — according to an interview cited by BET, Sheree, Will and Trey vacation together, and Jada has absolutely no problem with it, saying it’s “important” for Trey to have that “parental connection.”

Open Talk About Sex

Trey Smith, from left, Willow Smith, Jaden Smith, Jada Pinkett Smith and Will Smith attend the 26th Annual EMA Awards at Warner Bros. Studio on Oct. 22, 2016, in Burbank, Calif. Richard Shotwell / Invision/AP

The Smith household holds no puritanical views when it comes to the bedroom. In a “Red Table Talk” called “Let’s Talk About SEX!” with Jada’s mother, Willow and Willow’s best friend, Jada got really candid.

Jada joked that she went through an “addiction” with sex toys because they gave her “multiple” orgasms, warning “you can get addicted because you can create so much pleasure you can constantly want it.”

Jada also revealed that her grandmother told her about masturbation at the age of nine because her grandma didn’t want Jada to think that pleasure could only be had at the hands of a man.

Even With Willow

Willow Smith, right, and her mother Jada Pinkett Smith wait before Chanel’s Fall-Winter 2016-2017 ready to wear fashion collection presented in Paris on March 8, 2016. Thibault Camus / AP Photo

Willow said she first learned about sex when she walked in on her parents in a darkened room.

The discussion was a very free-flowing conversation about sex, for both genders.

And Even About Their Unique Marriage

Cast member Will Smith (R) and Jada Pinkett Smith attend the premiere of “Gemini Man” at the TCL Chinese Theater on Oct. 6, 2019, in Los Angeles. Phil McCarten / Invision / AP

There have long been rumors about whether or not Will and Jada have an open marriage. On a July 2020 episode of “Red Table Talk,” the show broke record audience numbers when the couple discussed a time when they were separated.

Jada admitted to having a relationship or “entanglement” with friend and singer August Alsina, which Will said he knew about at the time. The two came on the show to address the affair and assure the public that they’re still very much together after decades of marriage.

Phew!